Michael Carver
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Stephenie Holmberg left a comment for Michael Carver
"Hi Michael!  All went well with the colonoscopy.  Nothing to report except that it was clean!  There was some redness in the rectal area-which they biopsied, but didn't think it was of concern.  Glad that is over with,,,now…"
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"Thanks Michael. :o) I go in for a colonoscopy this afternoon-done with all that prep-ick!  The surgeon wanted it done prior to any surgery to be sure all is ok in the bowels.  The plan right now is to do surgery first,,,then folfiri…"
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"Michael, Thank you very much for your message (and I apologize for my woefully slow reply)!  I hope to one day hear about your 15-year anniversary.  I wish you well!! Dave"
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Laura C. commented on Michael Carver's blog post Happy Mothers Day To All The Mothers That Share Here
"Michael, What a beautiful tribute to your mother.  I am sure she was a wonderful woman and mother because she raised such a wonderful and special son.  Your writing brought tears to my eyes.  My mother was the same way, always…"
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Randy Cox left a comment for Michael Carver
"Michael, Thank you for your message way back in the beginning of May. I am terribly erratic when it comes to reading and responding to things on-line. It seems that when my energy and brainpower are sufficient for reading and writing I avoid my…"
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Michael Carver replied to Colon Cancer Alliance's discussion My CRC Connections May Newsletter
"I love this newsletter :)."
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Michael Carver commented on Michael Carver's blog post Happy Mothers Day To All The Mothers That Share Here
"Sue if it wasnt for you beautiful ladies none of us would be around. :)."
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Happy Mothers Day To All The Mothers That Share Here

My Dear (I am gender specific here (ladies) friends. Let us take the time to reflect on your Motherhood even if you have no children. Our pets are our children so that makes Colleen a Mother as well. If it wasnt for my lovely Mother I wouldnt be here wishing the other beautiful Mothers a Happy Mothers Day. So a big thank you to my Mother in heaven :). The unconditional love that a Mother has for her child/children is something that never dies, goes out of style or just flutters away. Mom's love…See More
May 12
Michael Carver commented on Vanessa Brannan's photo
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I think I spoiled her this year!

"Somebody was a good girl."
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Warm weather and sun :)

"Very beautiful picture of you Vanessa :).  "
May 12
Michael Carver replied to Kathy's discussion Line between hope and realism
"Dear Kathy, I know exactly what you are going through. I am Stage IV colon cancer survivor/patient with my dx 2005. I have had and still have my share of ups and downs in the reality of all of this. I have been on numerous chemo's throughout…"
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"Micheal thanks for the welcome. Wishing you the best looking forward  to chatting !"
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"Just a quick note of my Thur Chemo and Onc meeting. Chemo went well and was unassuming. My Onc had good news.The rest of the story in chat."
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"Michael, So I know today is your chemo day ... and meeting with the oncologist to find out more answers "hopefully".  I am anxiously waiting to hear what you found out.  Your in my prayers buddy.   Kristi"
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"Hello  Michael, Yes  i thought  that  the  blob  on  the  beach  was a jellyfish. I know  what you mean about not touching  the blob due to possible  poisoning-box jellies  will…"
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Pembroke Pines Florida
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Colon Cancer
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Stage 4
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July 12, 2005
(Patients/Survivors Only) Chemotherapy Received:
Fluoroucil (5-FU), Avastin (Bevacizumab), Camptosar (Irinotecan/CPT-11), Eloxatin (Oxaliplatin), Erbitux (Cetuximab)
(Patients/Survivors Only) If you have metastates, please note where:
3 mets located on the liver
About Me:
My name is Michael Carver. I also have Stage IV Colon Cancer. We all fear to hear those words "you have cancer" or even worse "it has spread to distant organs". I have found what works for me in a healing way besides operations and chemo is the relationships I have forged with fine people on this special website. Do I get down at times, you betcha. Do I get overwhelmed with joy at times, most certaintly. My friends here pick me up and we share so much. This is a toughh fight but you dont have to fight it alone.

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Happy Mothers Day To All The Mothers That Share Here

Posted on May 12, 2012 at 3:45pm 3 Comments

My Dear (I am gender specific here (ladies) friends. Let us take the time to reflect on your Motherhood even if you have no children. Our pets are our children so that makes Colleen a Mother as well.

 

If it wasnt for my lovely Mother I wouldnt be here wishing the other beautiful Mothers a Happy Mothers Day. So a big thank you to my Mother in heaven :).

 

The unconditional love that a Mother has for her child/children is something that never dies, goes out of…

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Yes We Were Young, In Love, Healthy and Still Maturing - :Life is Grand"

Posted on May 5, 2012 at 8:29pm 2 Comments

 

To All My Friends at this wonderful site I wanted to share this photo. Even though the last 30 plus years have flown by, my love for my bride Colleen is/has always been firmly planted in my heart, soul and spirit. Trials and tribulations happen in our life time. You all know what that is all…

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The Pet Scan Pendulum Swung Not In My Favor :).

Posted on May 3, 2012 at 3:58pm 10 Comments

Hi my fine friends. Sorry too many to name but each and everyone of you know who you are.I saw my Onc today and we read the Pet together. Here is a section verbatum " Status post left hepatic lobe resection. There is a small focus of hypermetabolic activity (SUV max 3.7, liver background is 2.9) near the surgical suture. No corresponding CT findings. No significant metabolic activity in the region of the anastomic sutures of the distal colon. Impression: Small focus of hypermetabolic…

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www.blochcancer.org "Guide for Cancer Supporters" "Cancer.. there's hope" "Fighting Cancer" Books

Posted on April 21, 2012 at 7:37pm 0 Comments

To my dear friends at My CRC Community I came across this website www.blochcancer.org and checked it out. I dont know where I got this web-site from. I hope I am not duplicating efforts if it was noted on this wonderful site. However, there are books, and audio CD's that are available for free.

 

As I said everything that can be sent from this organization is free. To me the information is priceless not only to the newly diagnosed but…

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At 3:51pm on May 19, 2012, Stephenie Holmberg said…

Hi Michael!  All went well with the colonoscopy.  Nothing to report except that it was clean!  There was some redness in the rectal area-which they biopsied, but didn't think it was of concern.  Glad that is over with,,,now I can eat!  LOL! 

Thanks for your prayers friend.  Hope you are doing well.  I'll keep you updated on things.

Steph

At 10:37am on May 18, 2012, Stephenie Holmberg said…

Thanks Michael. :o) I go in for a colonoscopy this afternoon-done with all that prep-ick!  The surgeon wanted it done prior to any surgery to be sure all is ok in the bowels.  The plan right now is to do surgery first,,,then folfiri and avastin afterwards-after healing is done.  And there's a possiblity of HIPEC for a 2nd time!  Yikes!  The surgeon is the same guy who did my HIPEC in december.  He said he would be involved with the obgyn in my surgery to check out a "mystery spot" that is anterior to my liver, as well as check out the peritoneal area to make sure ther is nothing else there....and said if there is, woudl I be open to HIPEC again?  Of course I had to say yes.  I'd rather do it than have cancer there and not do anythign about it....it is hard to imagine goign through that again, but I did well the first time...just hoping if we do this again it will be just as smooth....but this time with no recurrences after!

Hubby is feeling better now that there is a plan in place. Before that he was angry and of course concerned.  But if there's a plan to rid me of this-he's happy. :)

I'll keep you posted on things.  There's no date set yet for surgery, but he said probably within 2 or 3 weeks.

I hope you are well Michael. :o)  I always love to hear from you.  Take care-will talk soon.

Steph

At 10:45pm on May 17, 2012, Dave Prochnow said…

Michael,

Thank you very much for your message (and I apologize for my woefully slow reply)!  I hope to one day hear about your 15-year anniversary.  I wish you well!!

Dave

At 10:15pm on May 16, 2012, Randy Cox said…

Michael,

Thank you for your message way back in the beginning of May. I am terribly erratic when it comes to reading and responding to things on-line. It seems that when my energy and brainpower are sufficient for reading and writing I avoid my computer.

Glad to know your shingles are history.

I read about your PET scan results. I can only imagine how frustrated you must be. I haven't been at this long enough to have similar experiences.

You mentioned bloodclots.  Are you on a blood thinner, if so what do you use?  I have a port that dumps into my right jugular vein.  The port and chemo combo rewarded me with a clot in that vein. I started with Fragmin, but I felt I was injecting hot oil into my body, so we changed to Arixtra once that was available. At first, it was almost impossible for me give myself daily injections. Fortunately, I had a prescription for Emla cream (a numbing agent,) so I tried that and found that I could do those injections. After ten months of daily injections I still hate them.

I am 56, now and at least 10 years older than my Oncologist. At first, I felt that he was thinking of me as an older person and not as a youngish person with lots of life still to live.  I always mention my physical and social activities when I meet with him, and beginning to think he sees me more like I see myself. We are becoming closer ... after only 30 cycles of every other week treatment, but I doubt that we will ever really be friends. Given my initial reaction to him, I was surprised to learn that he teaches and researches clinical practice. Then I learned that his focus is not on Dr/patient relationship. His focus seems to be about different treatment approaches used by different doctors.

You also mentioned that your treatment is Erbitux on a weekly schedule plus Avastin every other week.  Are you having this treatment without either FOLFOX or FOLFIRI?

You noted that you can eat spicy foods.  I am jealous, but I think it's irinotecan that makes my mouth a little to tender for spicy food. On the other hand, the irinotecan has been shrinking my tumors, so I'm happy to live with that small limitation.

 

With care,

Randy

At 12:43am on May 11, 2012, Lady T said…
Micheal thanks for the welcome. Wishing you the best looking forward  to chatting !
At 4:58pm on May 10, 2012, Kristi Goochey said…

Michael, So I know today is your chemo day ... and meeting with the oncologist to find out more answers "hopefully".  I am anxiously waiting to hear what you found out.  Your in my prayers buddy.  

Kristi

At 2:53pm on May 10, 2012, Karen D Black said…

Hello  Michael, Yes  i thought  that  the  blob  on  the  beach  was a jellyfish. I know  what you mean about not touching  the blob due to possible  poisoning-box jellies  will  kill  you. I wat6ch  nature and animal shows sometimes. Do you have to wear  a  pump  home ffrom  chemo?I use to be on folfox  chemo.  Well gotta run an errand so will chat with you later. Feel  better  and  rest  up.  Love  karen


At 10:41am on May 10, 2012, Karen D Black said…

Hey  Michael,I love your pictures! OH, What is the blob  on the beach? Just asking-Take Care  Hugs    Karen

At 10:10am on May 9, 2012, Karen D Black said…

Hey  Michael,I am sorry  to  hear  that  you  have  had  the  shingles! I  hear  that  they  are  painful.I  hope  you  feel  better  real  soon! When  i  spoke  of  my  husband  and  i  getting  together  at  such  a  young  age (which  we  did,I  was 16-and  he  was  17) we  were  married  in  1979-and  divorced  in  2003  because  crack  cocaine  took  over  his  life,as  this  has  also  touched  so  many  lives  in  our  country! Well  he  passed  away  in  December.2009  from an  overdose  of  cocaine;he  was  an  IV  drug  abuser. Such a tragic  ending  to  what  was  once  an  awesome  marriage. He died the day before our daughters birthday. I did  everything  humanly  possible  to  get  him  to  stop  drugs  but  i  was  unable  to  save  him.Tragic ending. I wont be able to make the conference this year,and hope i can go next year.   I am  happy  to  hear  that  you  and  Colleene  will be  able  to  attend!  It is good to hear from you;as i miss talking to you and others on chat. Maybe i can chat today. Take Care MC  Love  and  Hugs to  you  and  your  wife.   Karen

At 12:28am on May 8, 2012, Vanessa said…

Hi Michael!

 

Thanks for the kind words! I will tell you this. When I was diagnosed in April 2002, the cancer was in and out of my small & large intestines, it ate up my apendix, was in my right abdominal and in my lymph nodes. It was scary and I am not gonna lie I had a hard journey and lost many "friends" and "family" too. But somewhere along the way you become peaceful, content and happy with the good things in life then all of a sudden people respomd to the positivety in a positive way.

I can honestly say now, through all the recurences, the mets, etc., I am happy that cancer tauht me to be real, be humble, and to appreciate all the good and not dwell on the bad. As for complications, ugh too many. I will save that for another convo!...lol.

 You seem to have an amazing attitude. Please keep in touch =)

Vanessa

 
 
 

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